Tom and I shared the speaker's platform 

Tom and I shared the speaker's platform on a number of occasions. I always appreciated how well-informed he was, how he could speak without notes, the passion he brought to his subjects, and the patience and kindness toward others he showed in response to all questions, even the hostile or uninformed ones. But what sticks even more firmly in my mind is his behavior at stop signs when he was the driver to these events. He did slow down a bit, but I never recall seeing him come to a full stop, except when a vehicle coming the other way was on top of us. Otherwise, just a little tap on the brakes, a quick look both ways and then a zip through the intersection. I once spoke to him about this, reminding him that Gandhi said that the practitioner of nonviolence and civil disobedience must obey all just laws. My memory is that he just replied in his kindly, low-key way: "Oh, I just never thought it was very important."

Tom and I also served together for a number of years on the Cardinal's Commission on World Peace and Justice. There were some good people on the Commission, but our person-to-person nonviolence was severely tested by the super-conservatives and the super-cautionaries who never seemed to want to take a stand on anything, even if it could be completely justified by Catholic social teaching. Once, at the height of the U.S.-sponsored wars in Central America in the mid-1980s, we finally, after much arguing and persuading, convinced the Commission to let us write a very strong statement describing the just struggles of the poor for a better life in Guatemala, El Salvador, and Nicaragua, the brutal opposition they faced from wealthy and powerful minorities, and the very harmful role of the U.S. in supporting the status quo. It included a reading list and suggestions for political action by Catholics in the pews. The statement, "The Crisis in Central America: A Catholic Perspective," was to be endorsed by the Commission and sent out in a variety of ways, including through the press and by the distribution of 5,000 brochures. But could we get Cardinal Krol to endorse it, given his tremendous influence in Philadelphia, nationally, and in the world church? Tom said, "Let's go see him." As a newly-baptized Catholic, I was still in some awe of Cardinals, Bishops and such, assuming they would be unreachable by ordinary lay people. But Tom was insistent and persuasive, so I finally agreed, and he made the appointment. At the meeting, the Cardinal was a "hard sell," but I could see that our facts and points were having an impact on him. We left the meeting without getting his commitment to endorse the statement, but he sent a copy to Fr. Bryan Hehir, one of the Church's top experts on international affairs, then on the
staff of the US Catholic Conference. Brian replied with a couple of small suggestions, which we easily incorporated, but said that the statement was "very good, particularly because it raises issues
and is written from a perspective not always found in the media." Based on that endorsement, the Cardinal allowed us to say on the brochure carrying the statement that it had "received the approval of His Eminence John Cardinal Krol, November 6th, 1985." I will never forget Tom's loving persistence, which played such a large role in enabling this to happen.

Dick Taylor

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