In Appreciation of TomI met Tom when I started coming to Common Ground meetings. I have probably had the privilege of his presence for about three years. And I have seen him only about once a month for two hours. Plus one Christmas party! Sometimes we only connect briefly with someone and that person makes a strong impact. I would say that is how it is for me in regard to Tom. So I ask myself when I learn of his death, why is this? Why will I miss Tom, why has Tom been so meaningful in my life? Tom appeared to be a tireless seeker of truth and so humble to the learning process. He was so enthusiastic and welcoming of establishing a common ground of meaningful contribution to address the complex dilemma of unwanted pregnancies. He made it so clear he welcomed our thoughts and queries. It seems he always embraced the best in us and beckoned the better in us to come forward. When I saw Tom, I instinctively smiled. I experienced the connection as enriching. I am so grateful for that opportunity. Tom, I would want you to know that the experience of being in dialogue with you has reinforced my conviction of the necessity of continuing the Common Ground dialogue, no matter the degree of difficulty and division on the issue. Thank you, Tom. I miss you. Denny Whalen |