Our Cry of Grief is a Cry for War

Because I have lost Craig as part of this historic tragedy, my anguish is compounded exponentially by fear that his death will be used to justify new violence against other innocent victims. I have heard angry rhetoric by some Americans including many of our nation’s leaders, who advise a heavy dose of revenge and punishment. To those leaders I would like to make clear that my family and I take no comfort in your words of rage. If you choose to respond to this incomprehensible brutality by perpetuating violence against other innocent human beings, you may not do so in the name of justice for my husband. Your words and immanent acts of revenge only amplify our family’s suffering, deny us the dignity of remembering our loved one in a way that would have made him proud, and mock his vision of America as a peacemaker in this world community. I call on our national leaders to find the courage to respond to this incomprehensible tragedy by breaking the cycle of violence. I call on them to marshal this great nation’s skills and resources to lead a worldwide dialogue on freedom from terror and hate.

Excerpted from a letter by Amber Amundson in the Chicago Tribune, 9/25/01.
Amber is the 28-year-old mother of two whose husband Craig was killed September 11 at the Pentagon.

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